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Irwin R Stender
August 13, 1939 ~ January 2, 2018 (age 78) 78 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Phillip Kohlmeyer
January 17, 2018 12:47 AM
I grew up in Minnesota with Irv. I was a year behind him, but in our small community I spent quite a bit of time with him in church and at school. I fondly remember now some of those conversations and experiences and that smile and laugh. It's great to see the wonderful picture of him on this page. Irv was a great person to relate, too. I'm glad he found the right woman to marry and was so involved in his church and community. It's great to read of his three sons, eight grandchildren and a great-grand child. I can imagine what a loving father and grandfather he was--even as Irv's father was a good natured, caring human being. Glad the love is being passed on in the Stender family from generation to generation. May the Lord God be Praised!
Message from John Kirkendall and Linda
January 16, 2018 12:34 AM
Irv will be missed. He was one of my best friends and I am so glad that God put him in my life. He made everyone feel special & important. Condolences to his family.
A candle was lit by John And Linda Kirkendall
on January 16, 2018 12:13 AM
Message from Hugh Janda
January 13, 2018 11:19 AM
It is with a HEAVY HEART that I write this message. I had the honor & pleasure to work along side Irv for many years during my tenure at HZF in Elkhart. Without question, he taught me about life, compassion, appreciating all things in life (with many stories too share) and sales. The man was incredible! His work ethic was second to none. We all looked up to Irv for guidance as he was like a Father to all of us. It is thru Irv that I met his boys, Little Linda and learned all about proper grass mowing and blade sharpening. My lawn looks like Wrigley Field thanks to Irv! Thank You for letting me cross paths with such an incredible individual. He always made it happen! RIP old friend, I will never forget you.
A candle was lit by Hugh Janda & Family
on January 13, 2018 11:09 AM
Message from Jeanne Fowler
January 12, 2018 2:54 PM
I have known Irv since 1968 and bought numerous cars and trucks from him. He was an amazing, helpful man who always stayed in touch. I will miss our many conversations. My thoughts and prayers to his family.
A RAY OF SUNSHINE was sent on January 12, 2018
With sympathy for the family. From: Ross and Joey Swinehart, Rev. Bill and Karen Scott, Scott and Kara Coryn, Pablo and Keli Rodriguez
A TRADITIONAL FUNERAL BASKET was sent on January 12, 2018
Our deepest condolences goes out to your family, from your Camping World family in Ashland, VA.
Message from Rushy
January 11, 2018 8:14 PM
Heartfelt condolences to the Stender family. Great, fun, caring family to be around. So many great memories. Rest peacefully sir.
Message from jackie clay
January 10, 2018 7:53 PM
I waited on Mr Steinder when i worked at Farmers Inn Rest, he worked with my boss at Pete Fall Ford. He was so funy and nice. Prayers to his entire family
A candle was lit by jackie
on January 10, 2018 7:50 PM
Message from Marlys Reiland
January 10, 2018 1:47 PM
I graduated with Irv (Gus) from Wykoff High School. He was a fun classmate. He attended our60th class reunion last Sept 23rd and we all enjoyed him and had a great time. You are in my prayers at this sad time. Marlys Reiland
Message from Marion and Vince Olson
January 9, 2018 6:00 PM
To Irv's sons and family. I am Irv's first cousin from MN as your Grandma Eldora and my mother Sophia were sisters. My sympathy goes out to you especially losing both parents in a short period of time. It was great to see your Dad and had a good chat with him a couple of times this past year in Wykoff MN. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
Message from Elizabeth Berkey - City of Elkhart Central Garage
January 9, 2018 1:33 PM
Please accept my condolences on the passing of Irv. It was an honor to have known such a great person and I will truly miss him. I've worked one on one with Irv the past eleven years with the City of Elkhart Central Garage. It was always a pleasure to talk to him on the phone and see him in person. He will be truly missed.
Message from Patti Miller
January 9, 2018 11:09 AM
My thoughts & prayers are with Irv's family. I had the pleasure of working with him in the 70's at Pete Fall Ford. Sometimes I would stop by and see him after I left. He always had time to chat. He'll be missed.
Message from Doug & Deb Clark
January 8, 2018 4:32 PM
To the Family of Irwin Stender,
We moved into the Concord District July of 1988. Concord Little League was the first organization our daughter and son joined. Doug and I followed up with volunteering. One of the first names we knew from Concord Little League was Irwin Stender. He gave so much Heart into the program. He has left this Life, but will Live on in your Hearts and through the dedication to the players, coaches and supporters. May you find comfort and peace.
Doug and Deb Clark
We moved into the Concord District July of 1988. Concord Little League was the first organization our daughter and son joined. Doug and I followed up with volunteering. One of the first names we knew from Concord Little League was Irwin Stender. He gave so much Heart into the program. He has left this Life, but will Live on in your Hearts and through the dedication to the players, coaches and supporters. May you find comfort and peace.
Doug and Deb Clark
Message from Mary Crothers
January 8, 2018 3:31 PM
I had the pleasure of working with Irv at Harold Ziegler for several years. I found that he could bring a smile to any room. He will be greatly missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
A candle was lit by Dora Ross
on January 8, 2018 10:56 AM
Message from Scott Robbins
January 8, 2018 10:20 AM
Scott, Chris & Matt my thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of your Dad. I have many great memories of spending time with you guys and your Mom and Dad. They made growing up at Concord special!
Message from Kenny and Lori Gregory
January 8, 2018 9:40 AM
Irv will be greatly missed by all Ken and I have known Irv for over 45 years and he has always been a true and loyal friend. My condolences go out to your lovely family.
Message from Mike Coy
January 7, 2018 11:47 PM
Irv was a great friend and he will be truly missed. It was great working with him at the Concord Little League. It was always nice stopping and chatting with him. We always ended up talking about Concord sports. He was a great guy and one of a kind. May God Bless his family and friends during this time of sorrow.
A candle was lit by Mike Coy
on January 7, 2018 11:38 PM
A candle was lit by Renee LaShure
on January 7, 2018 2:57 PM
Message from Dianne
January 7, 2018 1:19 PM
We are very sorry for your loss! Prayers for your family.
Message from Barb McAfee
January 7, 2018 11:40 AM
Would you please change the spelling of the word caring to carrying. I mis-spelled it.
Thank you, Barb McAfee
Thank you, Barb McAfee
Message from Barb & Gary McAfee
January 7, 2018 11:28 AM
Our hearts and prayers go out to the Stender Family. Irv was a loyal partner, employee and friend. We figured that he has sold more Fords in his lifetime than anyone in Elkhart County. We would stop by and see him when we were in Elkhart. You did have to make sure you had enough time to spend, as we all know, Irv liked to caring on lengthly conversations (mostly about his beloved family).
Wish we could be there to celebrate his life with all of you.
Sending love and hugs from Florida,
Barb & Gary McAfee
Wish we could be there to celebrate his life with all of you.
Sending love and hugs from Florida,
Barb & Gary McAfee
Message from Gary & Julie Davis
January 7, 2018 10:25 AM
Prayers to all Family and Friends. Meeting Mr. Stender back in the Van Conversion days and continuing thru the years, never a more dedicated gentleman to All people he meet. He will be missed
Message from Linda L McManus
January 7, 2018 8:34 AM
I am so sorry. My husband and I were very good friends of Irv and Linda. I grew up with Linda and we went to the same church. Irv has sold us cars since the 1980's. My husband just passed away in June so they are all together again. I will miss Irv so much for his help in buying a car. You kids have had a hard year. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
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